I wad 14 and it didnt really go that far. I wasnt ready. I say 18 but everyone is diffrent its hard to say.
(DOTW)What age do you think it is appropriate to start having sex?(6/2/10-6/9/10)
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Posted 03 April 2008 - 07:37 AM
age is of no consenquence, if you are married or not is, you can be married at 16 and that is the age for you, or even 40... 
Then again I am a radical Christian Republican.
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Posted 03 April 2008 - 07:53 AM
ummm i would say 18......seems most appropreate age prettymuch adulthood
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Posted 04 April 2008 - 09:22 AM
I can't really say without sounding too sexist.I think guys should be able to start having sex at the age of 16, and girls at the age of 22.
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Posted 04 April 2008 - 12:20 PM
I personally say 15 or 16 is fine, although i don't wanna have sex atleast till I'm 16
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Posted 07 April 2008 - 12:02 AM
The age people think are appropriate to start having sex is among theirselves. If they think they're ready to do it, let them go for it, they'll regret it or not in their lives afterwards.I personally will say 16 is the best age to do so, but things have gone far too ridiculous to even have 10 year olds having sex in the classroom while the teacher is not here.
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Posted 08 April 2008 - 07:46 AM
15/16Any younger and it's just plain gross.
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Posted 09 April 2008 - 04:40 PM
When you have a wife. Doesn't matter what age.
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Posted 11 April 2008 - 02:06 PM
hmmm, what's the age of a mature person?it depends on the person, his views of life, and his moral principles 
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Posted 11 April 2008 - 05:59 PM
It really depends on what kind of sex you are going to have. If you are doing it purely for pleasure then whenever you are physically ready I'd say go for it but if you are wanting to really share something with someone that you love then probably around 18 and up since that seems to be the time when people start to truly understand what love is.
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Posted 12 April 2008 - 11:36 PM
I wouldn't say any younger than 16. When you're 16, most girls have finished developing, and guys are always ready XDPlus, most ppl would be more ready to deal with the consequences.
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Posted 15 April 2008 - 04:59 AM
considering that most women prefer mature guys, it seems those 16-22 yr old guy are gonna be having lots of sex amongst themselves.I can't really say without sounding too sexist.I think guys should be able to start having sex at the age of 16, and girls at the age of 22.
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Posted 15 April 2008 - 10:27 AM
I think that 16 is a good age, thats when i did, however i was going out with my girlfriend for 8 months by that stage, we were both mature and ready, and it was all sweet. i think the age also depends on the relationship your in. for example, your 15 and been going out for 2 years is good, the trust is there. however being 17 and going out for like a month is a bit wrong, maybe even using your partner. its actually a really good question. but yeah. 16-17 good for one night stands lol
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Posted 15 April 2008 - 12:27 PM
I think if you feel right about the person you're having sex with then that's the right time, whether it be 13 or 18
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Posted 19 April 2008 - 07:49 PM
its not really something theres a specific "age" for its when your ready to accept the consequences for your actions and not only that but to be able to get through them.
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Posted 19 April 2008 - 09:25 PM
People have been talking about "being ready for it".... You probably won't be truly "ready for it" and the consequences thereof until after you're married, because then you're assured the support and love of someone else.
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Posted 27 April 2008 - 06:07 AM
When you're rdy to accept what ever might happen afterwards, be it disease or unwanted children. Use protection!
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Posted 27 April 2008 - 08:00 PM
Legally, most countries have it at 16-18 and above.Biologically, the moment you hit puberty.Psychologically, nobody will get into it until they have had intimate contact(but not sexual intercourse) with a member of the opposite gender.To a sensitive and emotional person, sex is a personal union of souls between two people. So when they first have sex, it feels 'special' to them and the person wom they had sex with is more important than most people. (This is assuming that they had sex willingly and not by force)To a person who sees only lines and truths, sex is just a biological reproduction process. So when they have sex, they do it out of duty to keep the species going. (More than likely, these people are severely into facts)To a person who's fairly normal, sex is a way of relieving stress and feeling good. Basically, it's like smoking in which it makes you feel good, but you get unforeseen consequences. (For smoking it's cancer, and for sex it's a baby)In my opinion, sex is something any person who has suffered heartbreak and learnt to forgive and forget and let go what he or she cannot have. Basically, you need to have broke up with someone before you have sex, for you to realize that sex isn't much. By doing this, the overly emotional person will learn to let go. And when they've learnt to let go, they'll stop treating sex as a union of mind and body and stop being so obsessively protective of the person they had sex with. This is what some women(and some men) might do with the first person they had sex with. (Usually their first boyfriend/girlfriend)There's not much I can say about sex to people who call it a biological process, since it's factually correct.I can't give an age, because each person is unique and different. But when you've learnt to consciously give up what you can't have and get over it, which is what most people do when they break up, they're ready to have sex, because they'll know how near they should stay. If they go in too near, they might drive that person away. And if they go too far, they might lose that person's love. So when you break up and realize what made you break up and you can get over it and easily say 'that's over with', you're ready to have sex.... Now that I'm done, why is it that topics like these get 17 pages+? The hell?
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Posted 29 April 2008 - 08:59 PM
i dont fink u can put an age on it, it depends on the individual when u feel ready nd r in a stable rlationship (longer than 4-5 months) then dont listen to frankie just do it lol
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Posted 29 April 2008 - 11:43 PM
Whenever the person feels they are ready for it and aren't imposing themselves on others and are mature and responsible enough to handle the consequences.
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Posted 30 April 2008 - 04:05 AM
Hmmm.. well, i lost my virginity at 14, but i believe it should be around 16, or until marriage. Why? Well, you get a level of understanding about sex until you are 16, an understanding abou it, in a complete way. And in an over all, mono, why? Well, because of the danger of getting any disseases.
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Posted 01 May 2008 - 07:03 AM
Well, when people have sex, they don't think about the consequences, they usually do that after sex. Well, it's ok to have sex once you hit puberty, just use protection, but that's my opinion. . .Well, when people have sex, they don't think about the consequences, they usually do that after sex. Well, it's ok to have sex once you hit puberty, just use protection, but that's my opinion. . .
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Posted 02 May 2008 - 02:36 PM
16 is the legal age, but I still think that is too young. Around 17 or 18 seems fine by me, but you still shouldn't have kids at that age.
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Posted 02 May 2008 - 07:43 PM
18 is not a good age think about the possibility of getting pregnant if you can't handle raising a child then don't have sex
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Posted 04 May 2008 - 02:10 AM
it depends on you and if youre ready for it
