Ultimately, sex is the physical union between two souls.I seriously disagree to any premarital sex. Call me a conservative, I don't care.Fundamentally, marriage is when two people, come together to commit their lives together, and sex is the product of their love for one another. Yes, there will be temptations, but if faced with them stay away!Often decisions to have sex is based on emotional and physical reasons which are only temporary. The road to this situation is often determined by the split second decision of whether to completely turn away or enjoy the temptation.Hence, move away from any sexual situations until marriage.My vote is after marriage. Probably 25 since a stable career is essential to start a family.1 second of choice. 1 life time of regret.
(DOTW)What age do you think it is appropriate to start having sex?(6/2/10-6/9/10)
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Posted 31 December 2007 - 02:47 PM
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Posted 01 January 2008 - 04:37 AM
Well, it's more like 5 minutes not, 1 second. Lolz. But I agree with you. Most teens shouldn't be able to have Premarital Sex. However saying you can't is just wrong. There really is a reason why there is sorts of child birth. Just to be safe, use two different types of birth control. For example. A condom and the pill. That way if the condom breaks or she forgot to take the pill that day you have a back up and thus lowering the chances of an unwanted child.
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Posted 01 January 2008 - 06:22 AM
Yes but what happen if they both happen?.... i guess they get in big trouble
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Posted 01 January 2008 - 07:34 AM
Really theres no age because everybody can say what they think is right but really what think think is right is not always right for someone...Everyone has there own beliefs, standards, and morals on the subject and are going to have sex when they feel they are ready
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Posted 02 January 2008 - 03:06 PM
well i think that the best age is...whatever you feel like 
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Posted 03 January 2008 - 03:32 PM
well in islam ur only allowed when ur married, but......I agree with christifa........
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Posted 03 January 2008 - 03:37 PM
the world nowadays wants you to believe that it's basically whenever your ready. Of course that's not true because sometimes even your mind can make you believe your ready when your not. So i think it should be until after you married because think about it. Marriage is a huge commitment rarely does a sane person go into a real marriage just whenever they want therefore a person will think carefully if they want to get married. Once they are married sex will not feel like it could have any consequences.
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Posted 03 January 2008 - 09:55 PM
Actually, it is true. Nobody's saying that it's when you THINK you're ready, it's when you actually are. The problem is that it's impossible to tell who's mature enough to handle the consequences.the world nowadays wants you to believe that it's basically whenever your ready. Of course that's not true because sometimes even your mind can make you believe your ready when your not.
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Posted 03 January 2008 - 10:51 PM
You know i hear all this trash about being moral and waiting until its the right time or this or that....But in all honesty who really cares? Since when is it up to other people to decide when two individuals have sex? Society shuns the idea of young people having intercourse, but in reality why is it so bad? I'm not saying that it's good or bad to wait to have sex, or even if you should be married or whatever. It is up to the people to decide. We are all human beings and have working minds. I despise the fact that society has stopped teaching about the dangers of sex, and only preaches now. Educate the youth, inform them of what bad side effects there are, but don't begin to put restrictions and ridicule on something so holy. Sex is a beautiful thing and should not be ruined by the ideas of religion or morality. I truly would hate to hear about two people who knew it was the perfect time because they were in a majestic place, or they just felt right, deny the thought of sex only because of the consequences of ridicule by peers...
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Posted 03 January 2008 - 11:53 PM
i dont mind atall i just wanna know if i gonna get points for postingi started at 12 but im quite krazy soab
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Posted 04 January 2008 - 02:38 AM
My girlfriend believes you should have sex when you are oh about NEVER 
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Posted 05 January 2008 - 02:54 AM
I agree. If you think you're up to the reponsibilities of having sex, then sure. But in a general opinion, I'd say if you're over 20. I think.. 16 is a bit young. You're still high school and you could be making some mistakes.
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Posted 06 January 2008 - 08:04 PM
You can have sex whenever your ready to, as long as you know the consequences
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Posted 08 January 2008 - 03:43 AM
i agree with what the person who wrote the topic said but you should also be married because you don't want to start off a family being all broken it needs to be a stable enviroment.
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Posted 08 January 2008 - 03:46 AM
Most peopel feel that it's okay to have sex as long as you love each other. well that is a retarted statement because anybody who is married will tell you that love isn't the only thing that is holding thier relationship up love isn't a feeling it's an action and i'm not talkin about taht other kind of action
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Posted 08 January 2008 - 04:36 AM
Why should i need to be married to have sex?If two people think the time is right, gives it a real argument that they wait till they are married?Or do we talk about sex without contraception ?
Edited by XerXis, 08 January 2008 - 04:37 AM.
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Posted 08 January 2008 - 10:47 AM
i think it's by mid 20's. well, it varies across cultures.
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Posted 08 January 2008 - 12:52 PM
I think that there is something that matters more than the age on which you have sex for the first time, and that is what you know about it.A lot of teenagers in the United Kingdom fall pregnant because they haven't been properly educated about sex. The UK has the highest Teenpregnancy rate in Europe and no sex-education in the curriculum, while The Netherlands have the lowest Teen Pregnancy rate and do have sex-education in their curriculum..coincedence?Teenagers, above all, need to understand what happens when you have sex, what precautions you can (and should) take and how it can affect the rest of your life when something goes wrong (pregnancy, STD's etc etc), not to mention the emotional aftermath when you appeared not to be ready at all!!But yeah, I do think that any age below 16 is too young to have sex, no matter how mature he or she can seem.First get them properly educated on the matter and then they can see whether or not it is worth having sex early or not.
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Posted 08 January 2008 - 10:20 PM
"Coincedence?" I don't think so. The main reason (or one of them) that I can come up with about why teens want to have sex would be due to the lack of stern unbringing during childhood. You don't raise a child in the way of, "sex is bad until married," you can bet that they'll have sex before hand. Also, the media and what's put forward in society doesn't help much either... There are probably other ideas that can be brought forth about this.UMSLA lot of teenagers in the United Kingdom fall pregnant because they haven't been properly educated about sex. The UK has the highest Teenpregnancy rate in Europe and no sex-education in the curriculum, while The Netherlands have the lowest Teen Pregnancy rate and do have sex-education in their curriculum..coincedence?But yeah, I do think that any age below 16 is too young to have sex, no matter how mature he or she can seem.First get them properly educated on the matter and then they can see whether or not it is worth having sex early or not.
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Posted 08 January 2008 - 11:05 PM
Whenever it could be possible, it's like....Virgin Mary was pregnant at 15...GOD Foock her in a spiritual wayPOINTS were deducted for this post by hookshot-Please refer to the forum rules to find out why your points were deducted.
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Posted 09 January 2008 - 01:42 AM
16-17, i mean, im 15 and ive already been rubbing my old gf's ass and touching her knockers (clothes on)
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Posted 09 January 2008 - 01:45 AM
hmm...lemmie c.... i think the appropraite age is 19.
Edited by wdcefv1000, 09 January 2008 - 01:45 AM.
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Posted 09 January 2008 - 01:46 AM
whenever you feel you are ready for sex you can have it i think
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Posted 09 January 2008 - 01:46 AM
i agree with awenya i mean you shouldnt have sex when ur 14:SWhenever you're ready to deal with the consequences of your actions.
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Posted 12 January 2008 - 12:39 PM
i lost my virginity when we i was 16, and quite frankly i wish i hadnt, it pushed me into a committed relationship, which a year down the line i am still in, and i just wish i could be free, but i feel trapped by that bond we share. Also, i slept with her under false pretences, she lost her virginity at 13 and was a complete whore, sleeping with any guy who would go near her, i realised i was nothing special and just another notch on her bedpost, id advise anyone out there to wait till you are happy, thats the key factor, if you are happy and comfortable, then go for it.
