I did once... Sadly I never got to tell him how I felt (I'm not saying why) but I'm still regretting that. Conversations were very awkward for me though XD
ever fell in love with a close friend?
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Posted 21 February 2010 - 09:13 PM
There was this one time, at band camp, but it wasn't really band camp.I digged this girl, she digged me too, but she had a boyfriend she liked more :oThe story of my life 
You've caused me to weep, you've caused me to mourn
You caused me to lose my home.
Boys will be boys, and girls will be monsters
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Posted 21 February 2010 - 10:39 PM
2 flicken words. no no!.even if i did, would i even tell you ppl?
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Posted 22 February 2010 - 04:01 AM
Yes I have a few times, and it does feel awkward. You want to feel the same way you did before, but you just can't. I know the feeling :0
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Posted 22 February 2010 - 05:33 AM
Every girl that i ' talk to ' has a best friend and we usually play that ' hate ' game. Like ' shes mine, not yours ' thing. and then...the girls best friend wants me too...but yes ive had that happened to me before
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Posted 22 February 2010 - 11:19 PM
I fell in love with a close friend and when I asked her out she was pretty o.k with it.
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Posted 23 February 2010 - 03:59 AM
i have! and still am! i have been in love with her for..year and half. its awesome 
. but i do understand it would get super awkward if we were to break up.. haha
. but i do understand it would get super awkward if we were to break up.. haha
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Posted 23 February 2010 - 04:30 AM
Unfortunately yes, though sadly it only ever was stress for me. She knew and always was messin with me about it. Took me two years to get past it.I dunno how to feel about how that she's still one of my friends.
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Posted 24 February 2010 - 03:09 AM
I have. when we broke up it was awkward at first but everythings back to normal but we still have to watch what we say around each other cuz one of us might think we still like each other.
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Posted 24 February 2010 - 04:18 AM
nope. but im curious as to how that would feel.
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Posted 25 February 2010 - 02:42 AM
Yes im in love with one of my friends, and she says that she loves me all the time, but that we couldn't be together, so now every time we are talking or every so often she will say she loves me but i have to remind my self, she doesn't love me like a boyfriend and girlfriend she loves me like a friend and its hard to stay friends with her,, and she is my best friend. Sometimes i wish things were different and that i could be with her but i know she will never like me like that.
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Posted 25 February 2010 - 07:46 PM
No. I guess It'll just feel awkward when you guys break-up. So much for the wasted friendship.
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Posted 02 March 2010 - 10:32 PM
I've done so, though I've never had the courage to find out whether I really loved them romantically, or if I was simply in love with the idea of being in love with them in a romantic method. Both times, I've never told the person I was in love with that I felt the way I did.
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Posted 03 March 2010 - 12:22 AM
I think this is something almost everyone can relate to. It's hard not to fall in love with someone from the opposite sex who you are so close with. It happens, ya know.I think this is something almost everyone can relate to. It's hard not to fall in love with someone from the opposite sex who you are so close with. It happens, ya know.
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Posted 03 March 2010 - 04:04 AM
Way too often. I think all the emotional closeness serves as fuel, all you need is a little romantic spark and everything goes up in flames.Haha sorry to sound so pyromanically pessimistic but I'd rather fall in love with a person who isnt a friend at the intial stage.. that way if things go wrong (and they will!) at least you've made a friend (or ex-friend) from a stranger and not lost a friend.
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Posted 03 March 2010 - 04:08 AM
Yep,There are a bunch of nice people in class and everywhere but it seems so stupid to waste the friendship of such wonderful people 
.So i never even think of it but i enjoy their company. Anyway it won't last long now.Coz we are graduating from high school and going our separate ways :(And to answer the question-No I haven't .
.So i never even think of it but i enjoy their company. Anyway it won't last long now.Coz we are graduating from high school and going our separate ways :(And to answer the question-No I haven't .
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Posted 03 March 2010 - 07:42 AM
What I do wonder, if I may, is a tack-on to this question thread:Is it better if you fall in love with a friend who used to be close, but drifted away and then by some miracle/quirk, comes back into your life?If you believe the movies (and me), then yeah, no need to be unduly sad 2bigpigs 
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Posted 03 March 2010 - 07:45 AM
Well im not sad.It's just that there are still 60 nice poeple who i didn't meet yet so that sucks bad.And falling in love with anyone is fine as long as he/she loves you back the same way.Just don't overdo it....Are you interested in textart?
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Posted 03 March 2010 - 07:52 AM
I see.. Very true. And also relevant to the nature of the original question. I think its okay to fall in love with anyone so long as they love you back as well. Sadly, that isnt always the case.What is textart may I ask?
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Posted 03 March 2010 - 07:56 AM
YAY YAY you asked.It s a name I made up coz i don't know what to call it.Its like ^~^ on a larrger scale.I wanted to start a competition in the Visual arts>competition section. INterested?................, , , . ,// \ \ _ ./ (_ / e~.) \ _~~ { ___...) ~ C \ ....~\ ~ -| |.........7_ / || ................ ) ....* % ............~,_$'SeeRap what happened to the spaces?
Edited by 2bigpigs, 03 March 2010 - 08:00 AM.
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Posted 03 March 2010 - 08:17 AM
HAHA that is awesome! I know that by the name ASCII art. I've seen really neat images like The Matrix 1997 Bullet Dodging scene done entirely in text images.Muck arnd with it when I feel like, but nothing too epic. My images always end up really sad looking :)But I'll definitely pop in for a look!
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Posted 03 March 2010 - 08:23 AM
Yeah but i need to get it started.I think I'll ask an Smod to help and I'll advvertise.I'm not started yet.
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Posted 03 March 2010 - 08:37 AM
Awesome, keeping my eye out for it.Lets invert the question on its head: if your close friend fell in love with you (and you werent in love with her)...*drumroll* it would suck too. Damn.
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Posted 03 March 2010 - 08:45 AM
I know.Just spend time with her and convert here into a friend.WHo knows?You may end up liking her at the end..So just don't let her down hard coz She is your friend and you do care for her...Don't bweak the poow things heawt 
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