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ever fell in love with a close friend?


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Posted 06 February 2011 - 03:19 AM

Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhh i hate when that happens, but i never could get myself to confess it to her. Thumbs Up for people who have tried to ask a friend out(EVEN IF THEY GOT REJECTED).
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Posted 06 February 2011 - 10:25 AM

Mmm, yes. I'm with her right now, actually. *sigh*GPs were deducted for this post, please read the rules! - tedsb16
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Posted 06 February 2011 - 06:34 PM

I've never fallen in love with a friend thankfully, but one of my friends was into me and i had no idea until she admitted it to me when we were drunk on new year. it was awkward and i wasn't rude but i wasn't very artful about it either and we haven't spoken since. It's probably something you should never admit unless you're certain they like you too.
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Posted 07 February 2011 - 04:04 AM

Yep i did. Good for a while, ended bad, three years later still sucks.
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Posted 08 February 2011 - 06:14 AM

I don't think its really the same but i kind of have a crush on one of my friends but its not too acward i just act normal around her
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Posted 09 February 2011 - 12:18 AM

yeah, it is all bad. if your friend already put you in the friend zone prepare yourself.
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Posted 11 February 2011 - 09:25 AM

I did a long time ago, but that didn't end up to well. I was able to realize what a racist jerk he was and promptly ending our friendship after we started high school.My boyfriend now feels like he's my best friend and like we've known each other forever, even though we met 6 years ago, and only started actively hanging out with each other about 3-4 years ago.
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Posted 11 March 2011 - 08:31 AM

Oh yeah I have.I asked her to prom as a "friend" and she accepted. then everything went downhill after that.
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Posted 11 March 2011 - 09:31 AM

Yes. THe result was horrifying.GPs were deducted for this post, please read the rules! - tedsb16
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Posted 11 March 2011 - 10:32 AM

I did, she wasn't a close friend. And I can't even find her anymore. I lived near her 5 years ago then we moved. And after 4 years I realized that I liked her. But now I can't find her and can't talk to her and well you get the picture. *_*
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Posted 11 March 2011 - 02:14 PM

i married my best friendGPs were deducted for this post, please read the rules! - tedsb16
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Posted 12 March 2011 - 11:12 AM

the only real crush I've ever had on anyone was on a good friend of mine - still haven't told him I'm crazy about him coz I'm too afraid that he'll just laugh at me and our friendship is really good so i don't want to ruin it by awkwardness.he looks really good and is really funny and nice, I've liked him for the better part of 4 years - hopefully I'll work up the courage to tell him before we finish school.
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Posted 12 March 2011 - 11:20 AM

Yeah, actually she knew that I like her. . that I love her but then I didn't choose her cuz she's not who I'm head-over-heels crazy in love with. =/ a few months, she got herself a guy, sincere, kind, sweet and I think she already likes him.....Then I'd always ask myself "What if. . . .and that. . I should've chosen her.." =pmeh, i'm still her friend though. someone she'd run to when things get sticky with him. =) that's more than enough for me.
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Posted 12 March 2011 - 05:37 PM

all my friends are the same gender as me. if they fell in love with me i would run.
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Posted 12 March 2011 - 06:14 PM

Yes. It was soo bad xDDD But we're awesome friends now :hyou:
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Posted 13 March 2011 - 08:47 AM

nope and i hope not since it would get awkward if we'd break up >.< still awkward with my ex and werent that close >.<
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Posted 13 March 2011 - 04:00 PM

sort of but we're still friends now so I think it wasn't that bad.
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Posted 13 March 2011 - 09:56 PM

i personally havent, but i can only imagine that it will either be really good or really bad for the relationship.
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Posted 14 March 2011 - 04:54 AM

I have and it sucks. Mostly because she doesn't feel the same way but our friends kind of push it.
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Posted 14 March 2011 - 05:12 AM

I do not. From the perspective of psychology, you probably fell in love with your close friend due to proximity and mere exposure.
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Posted 14 March 2011 - 05:55 AM

I have, and wanted to date her back in high school. Now...It really didn't work out as she was already taken once we reconnected after 8 years. That is the most frustrating thing.
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Posted 16 March 2011 - 05:51 AM

I wish that it would have happened to me... She moved away after third grade.. Sometimes I wonder about what could have been..
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Posted 16 March 2011 - 07:20 AM

yeah, and it destroyed friendship plus, I didn't got the girl :mellow:
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Posted 17 March 2011 - 07:37 AM

I did, she was my high school sweetheart...and then we broke up...but we're still best friends and we're trying again...I think it works out if your feelings are genuine. If you're just going along with it and you're not ready...well it kinda blows up in your face, and you can't ever go back.
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Posted 19 March 2011 - 07:35 AM

no not really, but ive had close friends show a large attraction to me and interest in me, and i just play it off like theres nothing there.. i know it makes me a jerk for not at least acknowledging their feelings, but i dont want them to change our friendship because im not up for dating..
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