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ever fell in love with a close friend?


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Posted 24 October 2008 - 11:18 AM

sort of but she did not return it and felt hurtful.
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Posted 28 October 2008 - 01:05 AM

Currently me and probably my best female friendare in this awkward we really like each otherbut dont want to date and break up and not be friends phasesucks
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Posted 28 October 2008 - 01:10 AM

NO! because all my friends are guys and i'm a guy too. sigh...
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Posted 15 November 2008 - 03:41 AM

Unfortunately, I have. We haven't spoken in almost a whole year due to major romantic tensions and I still regret telling her how I felt everyday.
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Posted 15 November 2008 - 08:18 AM

I do have fell in love with my close friend. It just normal when we spend time together, but I don't have any courage when it comes to confessing >.<
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Posted 15 November 2008 - 12:23 PM

I didn't fall in 'love' really, but me and a friend of mine were really close and we had alot in common with each other and we both found each other attractive. We both knew how we felt about each other, but neither of us acted on it because she was (and still is) engaged, and I knew if I acted on it, she would've ended up feeling bad about cheating on her boyfriend and I would've felt bad for putting her in that position, since I actualy cared about her, unlike most I do women I meet. Everyone who saw us together thought we were a couple, or thought that she should be with me instead of the other guy (who was kind of a friend of mine, only because she wanted me to be nice to him) because we were so close but...meh, I would've ended up screwing it up eventually...well, probably.Besides, I'm really not in a position to be in a relationship right now, money's too tight and I'm usually distracted with other issues.
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Posted 15 November 2008 - 10:22 PM

I did once we were only together about a week...it didn't feel right so we ended it
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Posted 16 November 2008 - 02:06 AM

i get heaps of close friends that end up falling in love with me or liking me and it pisses the hell out of me! cuz then they get angry at you for stuff when they werent before (btw im refering to chicks here) and its like grr so like im anti date close friend cuz im just not attracted to my close friends its just not me to be like that
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Posted 16 November 2008 - 02:23 AM

I have never had this problem because, well I don't find any of my friends attractive at all, so...
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Posted 16 November 2008 - 04:15 AM

yea...she liked me aswell and we both didnt know until i confesed.another boy who liked her got jelous an we had a fight...what a sore loser. he had plenty of time to say something but didnt
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Posted 16 November 2008 - 07:00 AM

I did and it turns out she liked me back and we ended up going out for a couple months
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Posted 16 November 2008 - 07:56 AM

Yes. Twice I belive.I never amitted to the second one... him and me slowly drifted apart from being friends...Love is painful, Is it not?
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Posted 16 November 2008 - 08:06 AM

Nope. I've liked a pretty close guy friend or two here and there, but it was never love. At least, I don't think it was.
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Posted 16 November 2008 - 08:14 AM

i know what you mean, it does get akward
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Posted 16 November 2008 - 08:15 AM

yeah, i did, and we were both girls... XDi'm not exactly sure if it was love, but i couldnt stop thinking about her. she was like one of those popular charming girls at school, and she thought i was cute. maybe admiration?i dont think anything about her now though; she's moved schools as well.
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Posted 17 November 2008 - 07:59 AM

well i did one time... but she moved from where i live so it doesn't matter now lol
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Posted 17 November 2008 - 08:03 AM

definitely no!all my friends r male
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Posted 17 November 2008 - 09:21 AM

Yeah. I had a crush on an old friend that I've known since kindergarten...but I guess the feeling has died down because we hardly talk to each other now.
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Posted 17 November 2008 - 10:12 PM

i have before but i was too uptight to admit it lol, and now the feeling died out, which makes me kinda regret not telling her..
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Posted 18 November 2008 - 07:48 AM

Hmm... i'm not entirely sure. I think i might be fallign for a close friend currently. only time will tell though.
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Posted 18 November 2008 - 07:50 AM

Ye it happened b4 and nothing to feel awkward :o about
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Posted 18 November 2008 - 06:47 PM

I love all of my friends. They are AWESOME!
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Posted 18 November 2008 - 09:49 PM

there is a guy that fell for me, but I not, I mean we weren't good friends. I liked him and he didn't :o
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Posted 19 November 2008 - 05:15 AM

Yes I have, a few times before, but the last one became my boyfriend =]
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Posted 19 November 2008 - 06:45 AM

i wuz crazy for this hot girl but i couldnt tell her cuz i never had a gf at the time, and she was 2 good for me even though we were best friends
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