Sort of the other way around. I fell in love with an amazing girl, then after we had our fun, we became close friends and still are after the many years that have passed. Sure, it feels awkward and like something's missing at times, but she's a great person and will continue to be my close friend for as long as I can make it last.
ever fell in love with a close friend?
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Posted 11 March 2009 - 03:17 AM
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Posted 12 March 2009 - 02:39 AM
Yeah, I knew that she liked me but honestly I was afraid of messing up and losing her. Now shes goin out with some douchebag. oh well.
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Posted 12 March 2009 - 02:02 PM
I did, and it were a bit odd, but now we are great friends as before, we did not have a relationship besides friendship anyway 
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Posted 12 March 2009 - 05:44 PM
This isnt really that bad to be honest, been friends with my GF for about 6 years, and we ended up just getting closer, took the plunge and well its now been over a year, and i couldnt think of things without her.
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Posted 12 March 2009 - 07:17 PM
been there in collage but i didn't pursue it because of fear. now i have feelings for my best friend. it can get weird but if it works out then it would be great
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Posted 13 March 2009 - 02:52 AM
yeah but it never works out. something awkward happens and then 9 times out of ten you've ruined the relationship.
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Posted 13 March 2009 - 03:04 AM
yup, i have...we were friends for 2 years and now we're in a relationship about to get married someday soon! i love him.... =)
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Posted 17 August 2009 - 10:28 PM
I have once! And I agree it is really awkward! We had to even sit in front of each other on a restaurant once. Gosh I really hated it! All the others was like talking and such while I was avoiding his eye contact ALL times! I was so embarassed! 
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Posted 18 August 2009 - 01:05 AM
nope never had but i think i was beginning to.
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Posted 18 August 2009 - 05:08 PM
been there,done that... i think that thats what happens when two people spend too much time together...the chemistry is inevitable...and YES...nothing is same again after...
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Posted 18 August 2009 - 05:20 PM
yes...he was my ex...now our friends are wondering how to either get us back together or accept that we're not really that in-love...sometimes I get irritated when they bring up the subject of how "we" are when they should know best the answer to that...~_~
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Posted 19 August 2009 - 02:31 AM
not necessarily love, but i did fall for a best friend of mine.
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Posted 19 August 2009 - 03:43 AM
Totally had this happen.We dated for a year, lived together 6 months, and we argued all the time.I've heard that's what happens when best friends date, but all in all, it was the best relationship i've had.She's just kinda a crazy beyotch now... and i miss my best friend since we broke up.='<
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Posted 19 August 2009 - 04:00 AM
I have never fallen in love with an old friend. I would definitely think that it would be somewhat awkward.
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Posted 19 August 2009 - 08:48 AM
I did love a close friend, after a year of knowing her i wanted to say my feelings, but at the end she just disapeared and after 3 years she calls me and tells me about her son... 
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Posted 19 August 2009 - 09:00 AM
Yeah, right now. Only problem is that he she lives in Germany right now, but is eventually moving back to here.
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Posted 21 August 2009 - 01:28 AM
Yes, yes I have. I wasn't all that bad until I told her. Why did I do that? It wasn't awkward at all until she knew it!
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Posted 21 August 2009 - 02:17 AM
Yeah, for three years in high school. Stayed close for a while, once I left. Never dated her. Don't regret a whole lot...could've chased much worse.
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Posted 21 August 2009 - 03:23 AM
I have indeed fallen in love with a friend. But alas, The navy snatched her away
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Posted 21 August 2009 - 04:20 AM
dont fall in love with a friend and mess up take it from me u lose a good person..... but thats just me
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Posted 21 August 2009 - 05:09 AM
yes i have. the closer you are to a friend, the more you understand her.
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Posted 23 August 2009 - 04:33 AM
Yeah, but it's working out perfectly 
Being a close friend give you a push to try even harder to make it work because you don't want to lose a close friend either. And you'll understand and know more about her. If you could be good friendfirst it means you can connect, which is essential imo.
Being a close friend give you a push to try even harder to make it work because you don't want to lose a close friend either. And you'll understand and know more about her. If you could be good friendfirst it means you can connect, which is essential imo.
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Posted 23 August 2009 - 06:10 AM
I have not, but I have had multiple people fall "in love" (or at least, "infatuation") with me.
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Posted 24 August 2009 - 03:39 PM
I do but she sort of liked me to we just don't admit it or at least only I do
