I think that it depends on how much you are willing to give up to see you children grow. You will have to put your dreams on the back-burner. If you are able to do that and you have enough money than yeah you should have kids.
Too young for kids?
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Posted 14 March 2011 - 07:37 AM
If you can support your family and feel you are ready than you are old enough.
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Posted 14 March 2011 - 08:51 AM
I agree with what had been already said. Just ask yourselves these questions: Am I mature enough to understand my own needs won't be priority anymore? How much am I willing to sacrifice for a baby? Time, social life, habits, etc? You said both of you work, so you already have the economical means to go for it. Still, I would wait. I'd enjoy the peacefulness of a house without kids, the privacy of it (I mean, you're at your peak sexually speaking, a kid would mean less of it, no locked doors in case they get scared in the night, no loud noises that may wake them up, criying interrupting your love sessions...). I'd enjoy being the sole recipient of my beloved's attention just a little more. You ARE young. Too young to start a family? That's up to you. Just realize you have a lot of time ahead of you. Maybe wait a bit and save the money you would spent on the baby for a later use, like a university fund or something?
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Posted 14 March 2011 - 08:58 AM
My sister was a teenage mother. She had no stable job at the time. She currently works as an air-hostess for a big plane company. She works most of the time and does overnights so half the time, her son is at my place (I still live with my parents). She split with the father and has been a single mother ever since. She has only recently found a stable steady guy. But she is an alright mother so I think that if my sister can do it, you guys certainly can. =)
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Posted 14 March 2011 - 11:06 AM
I wouldn't even start thinking about kids until I'm at least 30 years old. Finish college if you can, or make sure both you and your wife have a good stable job. Work your way to owning a home.Kids can come later, it's hard for parents in their late 30's to have enough money to send their kids to college without taking significant loans...
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Posted 01 April 2011 - 04:10 PM
i feel that the age doesnt matter just need to be matured enough and have enough money to raise a kid without making him/her suffer
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Posted 11 September 2011 - 11:58 PM
i think there are too many filthy humans around as it is.
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Posted 12 September 2011 - 12:01 AM
Thank you for calling me, my misses and my unborn child "filthy"!i think there are too many filthy humans around as it is.
We decided against it in the end, with work being unstable and a bunch of other stuff going on it wasn't worth it. Im glad 
a year without sex would be, horrific!
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Posted 12 September 2011 - 12:11 AM
i think the world would be much better off if we all just disappeared. Oh, and you're welcome.
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Posted 13 September 2011 - 05:59 PM
i think you should go for it , it really doesnt matter about the age thing , 21 is perfectly fine , at the end of the day you have enough money to support the baby and your both gonna be their for the baby and each other and you love each other then go for it , and if you do let me know so i can congratulate you two properly
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Posted 20 September 2011 - 03:16 AM
If you have a good job and you're not busy all day then why not.
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Posted 12 January 2012 - 07:13 AM
i think you guys are fine if you can support the child. there really isnt any age to early besides like 16 or younger. but as long as you can support the child financialy and emotionaly do whatever makes you happy.
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Posted 17 January 2012 - 01:03 AM
If you both are responsible, able to support the child, and are emotionally ready, go for it.
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Posted 17 January 2012 - 10:20 PM
This is ridiculous..yes have a kid as long as your're mature, financially stable, have a healthy relationship and know what to expect with kids...then by all means nessisary go ahead!
